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sharonbn
06-13-2003, 09:39 AM
St. Elsewhere: Scenes from hospital after terror attack

I arrived at the hospital at 19:30, following a phone call from a mutual friend: Orly, my long time friend was injured in the terror attack in Jerusalem. She suffered a concussion, broke her arm along with some surface wounds and was unconscious. She was laying in ICU in Sha’arey Tzedek hospital.

Orly and I met in the Air Force. Both of us graduates of the military school of computer science. We served in the IAF Logistics center between 86-92. She has the most amazing deep blue eyes one’s ever saw. We used to go together to lunches and discuss current events. We argued over who should get our votes in the elections and compared views on movies, plays and dance shows. She was part of Tel Aviv “in crowd” and let me in all the cool parties where celebrities roamed free. After our release from the army we kept in more-or-less touch through mutual friends.

I picked up a mutual friend in Tel Aviv and we drove to Jerusalem. The hospital was, as can be expected, overcrowded and chaotic. Worried family members, friends and lots of ordinary people walked the long corridors hastily, shouting to distant doctors or mumbling to themselves. I tried to ask around about Orly’s whereabouts but could get no one to answer. The phone was not working inside the hospital, so we joined the trend of roaming the corridors, peeking into rooms, stopping nurses only to get frowned at.

After a while of trial and error, we found ICU. They would not let us in the ward, as it was strictly for closest family only. We sat on the floor outside the heavy metal doors, waiting for someone to come out and update us on Orly’s condition. All around us were other people, waiting for news on their close ones. The place was erringly quiet. Every person was wrapped in one’s own thoughts, fears and hopes. Every few minutes, the door was opened and someone with worried look came out. Some people would rise to meet him/her. They would stand in a corner, quietly conversing while the rest of us looked at them in a mixture of hope and anxiety, trying to read from their faces and tone of voice if it was good or bad news.

Next to me sat an elderly lady. Her formal wear told she was interrupted during some evening event. Was it a birthday party? Wedding? Charity dinner? I looked into her eyes. Her mind seemed to be a million miles away from here. Suddenly she noticed my stare and smiled a weary smile at me. I smiled back and lowered my eyes. She asked for whom was I waiting. I told her and asked the same question. She told me the sister of her husband was in ICU with a fractured chest bone and internal injuries. She was sitting in the bus and was thrown out some 20 meters away at the time of the explosion She was conscious the whole time and even told how she felt while was flying in the air. The lady spoke in a low, calm voice, her eyes kept smiling.

After a short while, Her husband came out. As she rose to meet him I grabbed her hand and asked her to ask him to tell Orly’s family we’re waiting outside. She smiled and said “of course”. They stood in the corner for what seemed like a long time. I saw the lady’s eyes widened in horror and her husband attempts to calm her down. After a while they went and sat down in a distant corner.

I felt Orit’s hand on my knee, “what do you think happened?” she asked. I took her hand in mine and did not answer.

Then Orly’s partner-for-life, Arie, came out of ICU. He immediately saw us and smiled at us. We stood up and came towards him. He took us down the corridor where we found a vacant bench. We sat down and looked at him with a silent question. ”Orly’s fine” Arie finally said. I felt like a stone was lifted from my chest and I saw Orit felt the same. Arie continued: "She was sitting in a car that went pass the bus when it exploded. The driver sufferred only mild injuries. Orly's carseat was ripped away from the chassie and she hit her head hard on the window. She passed out immediately. The doctors took x rays and scans of her head and could find no critical damage. She's still unconscious but her vital signs are stable." Arie thanked us for coming. He said there is no point of us staying and he promised to phone when Orly wakes up. A short while after, we went back home.

Incidentally, the bench we sat on was opposite the bench where the Lady and her husband were sitting. I looked at them and saw the lady had cried. She smiled a faint smile at me. “I’m glad Orly is alright” she said. I thanked her in a shameful voice. I didn’t dare ask her about Her husband’s sister. Later, on the way home, I bit myself for my crowdedness

Am Yisrael
06-13-2003, 09:59 AM
Thanks for sharing that with us Sharonbn. I really hope your friend gets better ASAP. :(

My brother lost one of his best friends in a suicide blast in Haifa some time ago. His family moved to Israel from England a few years back and lived in the Haifa region. His name was Gal Koren. One night Gal went out for pizza with his dad and his older brother. Gals mum didnt go with them but they phoned her up just before the attack to see if she wanted anything. They are now all resting in peace. I feel really sorry for Gals mum to lose her whole family - her 2 sons and her husband. :(

reason
06-13-2003, 02:22 PM
Nobody should ever go through that again, ever. Your experience hit a chord deep inside me sharonbn. I’m glad that your friend well be fine, and I’m sorry and ashamed those attacks were made in the name of my religion.

My condolences to everybody in Israel who lost a loved one.

peacelover
06-14-2003, 05:02 AM
Prayers for your friend Sharon, I'm glad they will be OK, and I guess we'll never know, but I wish the best to the sister of the woman you met's husband.

Am Yisrael - I looked up Gal on one of the memorial sites, they were describing how artistic and talented he was. I said a prayer for him, his father and brother, and their poor mother who is left behind. It's important to remember how many more live are ruined above the number of victims who are physically caught up in the bombs. I Israel's situation may be another case of Remarque's dedication of the Fist World War in "All Quiet on the Western Front" - a generation destroyed... even those that escaped the bombing.

I hope no one will mind if I also make a non-political mention of the Palestinians who were caught in the crossfire of the assassinations, those as innocent as the Israeli victims. Political support for the actions or otherwise, as humans, I think we ought to remember all of the victims of this war in a spehere outside of the political arena.

Bless them all

elke
06-14-2003, 05:09 AM
Originally posted by peacelover
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Bless them all

Amen! :(

Good luck to your friend, Sharon!

L@mplighterM
06-14-2003, 10:38 AM
Snip:

New Jersey legislator flies to wounded daughter's side
By TOVAH LAZAROFF

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Eric Singer vowed he would never visit his older sister Sarri in Israel until it was safe. Wednesday he broke that promise after hearing that she was one of the 100 people wounded in the suicide bombing in downtown Jerusalem earlier that day.

By Thursday, instead of working as a detective in New Jersey, he was in Sarri's hospital room at Hadassah-University Hospital in Ein Kerem, playing the unofficial role of press secretary to both his sister and his father.

Sarri's story drew a lot of media attention because her father, Robert Singer, is one of two Republican majority leaders of New Jersey's state senate.

But until Wednesday, Sarri's story was fairly normal. She came to Israel a year-and-a-half ago, hoping to make it her home. Sarri, 29, said she technically she has not changed her status, but she still hopes to stay.
"I have made in aliya in spirit, but I haven't done the paper work," said Sarri from her hospital room, filled with flowers, balloons and friends.
On Wednesday afternoon Sarri was on her way from her work to meet a friend in the German Colony for dinner. She recalls sitting on the packed No. 14A bus. "I didn't notice anything weird. I was looking out the window and felt a strong blast and then I heard it. I closed my eyes right away. I felt like someone had hit me in the face. I didn't understand what was going on. My left eye wouldn't open. I was screaming, screaming. I'm assuming I was screaming loudly, because my throat hurt when I got in the ambulance. Outside, there was a man, I want to thank him, who told me I have to get out. I told him I couldn't. He said, 'you can, you can.' Somehow I put my feet through the small window."

http://www.jpost.com/servlet/Satellite?pagename=JPost/A/JPArticle/ShowFull&cid=1055385362631

Am Yisrael
06-14-2003, 12:43 PM
http://www.jpost.com/servlet/Satellite?pagename=JPost/A/JPArticle/ShowFull&cid=1055482892787

Jun. 13, 2003
Islamic terrorism touching Israeli and Palestinian lives
By THE ASSOCIATED PRESS

It's someone's aunt, or a friend of a friend. A daughter. A fiance.
Many Israelis and Palestinians know someone who's been hurt killed in a Palestinian terror suicide bombing or an Israeli military strike.

Thousands of wounded still have lumpy pink scars on their legs and arms from the bullets or bits of metal that pierced their skin. Their numbers are a reflection of the violence that has touched nearly every life.

A day after a suicide bomber blew up a bus in downtown Jerusalem, killing himself and 17 other people, many were waiting to hear the final list of the dead. They nervously scanned newspapers and listened to the radio, hoping not to hear a name they know.

"I haven't heard all the names yet. I'm afraid of what I'll hear tonight," said Web page designer Rahel Sharon, 38. "I've already lost a few friends to terrorism."

Her friend Sara Duker, 22, a student from Teaneck, N.J., was killed in a bus bombing in Jerusalem in February 1996 along with her fiancee. Another friend, from the Netherlands, was killed in a shooting attack in 1994.

"It's very sad, very frightening," she said, as she stood at the bus stop where city bus No. 14 was destroyed in Wednesday's attack. She thanks God out loud each time she arrives home safely.

Another woman at the bus stop nervously asks a man if a large, unattended bag is his, worried it could be a bomb. He nods his head yes.

Out of 10 people interviewed on the street, six said they had been injured themselves or knew someone who was hurt or killed in an attack. Still, more Israelis die in traffic accidents in 2002, 525 people were killed in car crashes, compared with 367 people who have been killed in suicide bombings in 32 months of fighting.

Overall, 2,396 people have been killed on the Palestinian side and 800 on the Israeli side since fighting broke out in September 2000.

In Israel, word of a bombing overloads cellular phone networks, as panicked friends and relatives check on each other. The sound of more than one ambulance racing down a street or even a car backfiring can also stir panic.

Some Israelis, a few bus drivers in particular, have survived multiple attacks.

For one of those injured in Wednesday's terror bombing, it was his third confrontation with horror. The first attack in 1995 left the man in a wheelchair, a second left him in shock and the bus blast blew him out of his wheelchair on the sidewalk, lightly wounding him, the Yediot Ahronot newspaper reported.

In Jerusalem, Yakov Cohen, 20, reads Psalms in the bus shelter next to where the bus exploded. By reciting them, he believes, he can help stop the violence.

His knees are scarred by shrapnel that pelted his body from a December 2001 attack. In that strike, two suicide bombers blew up together at an outdoor pedestrian mall, and minutes later a car exploded in a nearby side street.

Cohen turns to Psalm 124: "If God hadn't been there for us ... when men rose up against us, then they would we have swallowed us up alive by their violent anger."

The part that gives him hope reads, "Blessed be the Lord, who has not given us as prey to their teeth."

sharonbn
07-01-2003, 04:51 AM
Hi everyone,

wanted to tell you that Orly was released from the hospital about 10 days ago. She's still recuperating at home.
She's almost fully recovered and there should be no long term effect from the injury.

I showed her all the PMs I got wishing her recovery, and she says thank you.

looks like this story has a happy ending after all :)

thanks again,
Sharon.